It Takes a Village

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In the Rio Grande Valley, leadership often wears many hats — but in the world of foster care advocacy, it looks a lot like compassion in action. For Lucy Wolthoff, Rio Grande Valley Director for Foster Angels of South Texas, being “La Jefa” isn’t about authority — it’s about community, service, and showing up for children who need it most.

“What does being ‘La Jefa’ mean to you in your work with foster children?” she reflects. “Foster Angels of South Texas is the real ‘La Jefa.’” For Wolthoff, leadership is collective. “Our organization works every day to provide foster youth with the support and resources they need to succeed in life. I’m just a small part of it,” she said. “It truly takes a village.”

That village has made a measurable impact. “Last year alone, we served over 3,000 children, 342 of them more than once, with nearly half right here in the Valley,” she said. Behind those numbers are children entering foster care during some of the most vulnerable moments of their lives.

“One thing that has always been important to our organization is ensuring that every foster child feels a sense of normalcy when they enter care,” Wolthoff explains. Many arrive with very little. “Many children are removed from their homes with only the clothes they are wearing,” she said, emphasizing the urgency of meeting basic needs quickly and thoughtfully.

That philosophy traces back to the organization’s foundation. “Children in foster care deserve everything new: new clothes, new shoes, educational materials, food, and anything else that helps them feel safe and cared for,” she said. It’s a simple but powerful approach — one that restores dignity during upheaval.

Still, challenges persist. “One of the biggest challenges we face is the shortage of foster homes in our area,” Wolthoff said. This shortage can have heartbreaking consequences, sometimes forcing children to leave the Valley or be separated from their siblings. To counter this, Foster Angels steps in with practical solutions. “We help bridge that gap by providing sibling visit trips and supplying beds so that, when a home is available, siblings can stay together.”

The organization’s support doesn’t end with placement. “When we receive a request, we respond quickly, providing needed items or support within 48 to 72 hours,” she said. That responsiveness ensures stability during uncertain transitions. From essentials like clothing and beds to opportunities like sports, camps, and celebrations, every effort is made to create a sense of belonging.

“We support foster youth in many ways — anything that helps a child feel supported, stable, and cared for,” Wolthoff explains. That includes not just children, but young adults navigating life after foster care. “Unfortunately, many who age out of the system face homelessness,” she said. Through programs like Life Script, Foster Angels provides scholarships, housing assistance, and guidance to help them build independent futures.

At its core, the mission is about filling gaps. “We strive to fill the gaps and ensure every child has the opportunity to thrive and succeed in life,” Wolthoff said.

For those wondering how to step into their own version of “La Jefa,” Wolthoff points to the power of community action. “One of the biggest needs is awareness and support for local organizations that serve foster youth,” she said. Whether through donations, volunteering, or participating in initiatives like the Give Them Wings Shoe Drive or the Focus on a Foster Teen Christmas Drive, every contribution matters.

Her message is clear — and hopeful. “When we come together as a community, we can truly make a lasting difference in the lives of our foster youth.”

In the Valley, being “La Jefa” isn’t about standing alone at the top. It’s about standing together — lifting up every child, every family, and every future along the way.

Caroline Waldrip